Application for Private Coaching for Young Women & Girls

How to Apply for Private Coaching

Thank you for your interest in hiring Dr. Carla to coach your daughter. One-on-one coaching is an unforgettable experience that can equip your daughter with priceless lessons that she can turn to for guidance for the rest of her life.

Please read the coaching overview before submitting an application at the bottom of this page.

Dr. Carla offers complimentary 20-minute no-obligation phone consultations as her schedule permits to parents who are committed to investing in their daughter’s future and want to explore whether her personalized 1-on-1 coaching program is a good fit for their family.

Please note that due to Dr. Carla’s demanding schedule, she only works with a small number of private clients at a time.

To be considered for a private coaching spot, please submit the confidential application below to help Dr. Carla determine whether her private coaching program is the right fit for your daughter. Please take a moment to read the Frequently Asked Questions about Coaching before you submit the application. Please provide detailed information.

This May Be Right For You If…

• Your daughter is ambitious, high-achieving, and/or considered gifted/talented
• Your daughter is a leader, entrepreneur, actress, or influencer at her school or on social media
• She has big dreams, but you’re concerned that her desire to fit in or be liked by her peers may lead her to make an unwise choice that could derail her bright future
• Your daughter is a candidate for coaching and is highly functioning on a daily basis
• Your daughter is open to coaching, respectful towards adults, and willing to meet with an open-minded coach who is easy to talk to and can help her overcome her challenges
• You want the best for your child and are prepared to make a 4 or 5 figure investment in 1-on-1 coaching with a high-level personal development and leadership coach
• If you have a spouse or partner who needs to approve or is financially responsible for coaching, they are 100% supportive and believe in the value of hiring Dr. Carla to coach your daughter
• You are willing to trust Dr. Carla to guide your daughter’s coaching

What Is The Investment for Private Coaching?

The investment for Dr. Carla’s 1-on-1 coaching packages will be shared during your phone consultation. She doesn’t post her fees online or provide quotes in advance because coaching is personalized for each client and depends on your unique situation. Pricing depends on the length of the package, frequency and length of sessions, and the level of support you and your daughter need. Other factors that affect the investment include whether or not you desire additional support for the parent(s) or mother-daughter coaching.

When you consider investing in coaching, it’s important to consider the return on investment. Dr. Carla has an outstanding track record of helping young women and girls make healthy choices and empowered decisions that set them up for success in school and life. In addition, 1-on-1 coaching has the potential to prevent costly mistakes, unnecessary setbacks, and expensive ongoing treatment down the road.

That said, the opportunity for your daughter to receive one-on-one guidance from her is rare and the value of investing in coaching with Dr. Carla is priceless! Dr. Carla is a highly trained leadership coach, masterful facilitator of transformation, and one of the most highly requested motivational speakers in the education arena specializing in empowering young women and adolescent girls. She charges a premium for her services that reflects her expertise and extensive experience helping women and girls navigate challenges, bounce back from setbacks, and create positive transformation in their lives, families, and communities.

What type of payment does Dr. Carla accept?

Dr. Carla accepts Visa, MasterCard, Discover and American Express. If you prefer, you can split your payment across two or more cards at the time of enrollment.

How Long Will My Daughter Coach With Dr. Carla?

Helping your daughter transform her mindset, attitude, self-confidence, and behaviors doesn’t happen overnight. Coaching requires a commitment of time in order to be most effective, however, it is impossible to predict how long Dr. Carla will work with your daughter. During your phone consultation, she will recommend a package for you and your daughter based on your goals, needs, and budget.

A 6-12 month commitment is typically required, depending on the time of year and availability. In some cases, a shorter coaching intensive may be suggested to build rapport and create momentum. Please note that single sessions are not currently available.

If I Am Unable to Invest in Private Coaching, How Can My Daughter Work With Dr. Carla?

If private coaching is beyond your budget, there are other ways for your daughter to work with Dr. Carla. If you’re interested in enrolling your daughter in Dr. Carla’s workshops or virtual group coaching programs for pre-teen and teen girls, click here to get on the waiting list. You do not need to submit the private coaching application below.

Who Should Complete This Form?

This form should only be completed by the parent/guardian or adult who will be financially responsible for private coaching. For legal reasons, if you are under 18, your parent/guardian must submit this form for you.

Please note that it is ideal for both parents to be supportive of the coaching partnership (if applicable). If there is a spouse or partner who will need to approve or contribute financially to your daughter’s coaching, please share Dr. Carla’s website with them before submitting the application below to confirm that they are open to investing in life coaching.

After Dr. Carla personally reviews your application, here’s what will happen:

If it sounds like coaching is a fit, a member of our team will be in touch to schedule a phone consultation when a spot opens up in Dr. Carla’s calendar. During this phone call, we will explore your challenges, concerns and goals for your daughter in more detail and discuss whether coaching with Dr. Carla is the best option to help your daughter reach her full potential. After reviewing your individual situation, we will kindly let you know if private coaching isn’t a fit at this time and make other recommendations.

Can Dr. Carla Coach My Daughter if She Has a History of Depression, Eating Disorders or Self-Injury/Cutting?

Coaching is a different approach than therapy and coaching is not appropriate for everyone. Coaching is for people who are well-adjusted, emotionally healthy, and effectively functioning. If your daughter has a current or past history of counseling/therapy, depression, or eating disorders, coaching may not be the best option for her. Read the FAQs for more information about the difference between coaching and therapy.

If your daughter is struggling with anger management challenges, diagnosed personality disorders or a history of self injury/cutting or violent behavior or aggression towards others, please seek help from your daughter’s physician or a qualified mental health professional.

IMPORTANT: If you or your daughter is experiencing an emergency or self-injurious thoughts or behaviors (cutting, overdosing, suicide, etc.), consult a licensed mental health provider and/or call 911 immediately!

By completing the form below, you agree to the following:

• I understand that coaching is not psychotherapy, medical treatment, counseling, or financial/legal advice of any kind and does not claim to be psychotherapy, medical treatment, counseling or financial/legal advice of any kind. I agree to seek other professional services as needed.
• My daughter is not currently exhibiting any signs that indicate that she may be experiencing a mental health or medical emergency or at risk of harming herself or anyone else.
• I understand that Dr. Carla Stokes holds Ph.D. and Master of Public Health degrees in Health Behavior and Health Education from the University of Michigan and is not a psychologist, therapist, or medical doctor.
• I am fully responsible for the decisions and actions I take in regards to my personal life and finances.
• I agree to assume any and all all risks, foreseeable and unforeseeable, that may be associated with or may result from my participation in the phone consultation.
• I understand that Dr. Carla LLC makes no guarantees or warranties, expressed or implied, about any results to be achieved.
• I shall in no way hold Dr. Carla Stokes and Dr. Carla LLC liable or responsible for any actions, claims, demands and suits of any nature after this phone consultation.
• I waive and release any claims arising or resulting from Dr. Carla’s questions, suggestions, and advice and from my own actions, choices, and decisions or those made by my spouse or children.
• I understand that by submitting an application for private coaching I will be added to Dr. Carla’s email waiting list if a spot is not available.

By clicking on the “submit application” button and submitting the form below, I acknowledge that I have read and understand the terms on this page and agree to abide by them. I also give Dr. Carla permission to contact me and send me future updates, tips and resources for parents of girls, and special invitations.  

Next Steps:

• Read about Dr. Carla’s coaching practice before submitting an application: https://drcarla.com/home/coaching-for-teen-girls/
• Please provide detailed information so we can make a recommendation that is best for your child and meets your goals and objectives.
• We will respond ASAP, but it may take 7-10 days to receive a response to your initial inquiry during the summer and back-to-school season.
• If you already submitted a request and have not received a response in your inbox or spam/promotions folders within this time frame, please be advised that we have occasionally experienced technical difficulties due to issues with spam filters. Please submit it again and feel free to send a private message on Dr. Carla’s Facebook and/or Instagram business pages to confirm that your application was received. If your previous request wasn’t delivered properly, we apologize for the inconvenience and sincerely appreciate your patience.

Comments or questions are welcome.

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If we were to work together to help your daughter, what results would you be thrilled to get out of it?*

Is there anything that could possibly stand in the way of enrolling your child in coaching and being fully committed to the program? If so, what?*

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To your knowledge, does your child have a history of the following behaviors?: (select all that apply)*

None of the behaviors listed below Violent behavior and/or aggression towards others Anger management challenges Trouble with the law, history of arrests, probation, or placement in a juvenile detention center Crimes against minor children I have filed an unruly child petition, etc. Depression Anxiety Suicidal thoughts or suicide attempts Difficulty opening up to adults Difficulty getting along with peers in a group setting or social skills challenges Diagnosed personality or behavior disorder(s) (i.e., bipolar disorder, borderline personality disorder, Oppositional Defiant Disorder, etc.) Diagnosed autism spectrum disorder Diagnosed Attention-Deficit/Hyperactivity Disorder (ADHD) Open defiance toward teachers, coaches, or authority figures Refusal to comply with or frequently challenges teachers' or adults' requests or rules Negative/hostile attitude, extreme anger and defiance, or argumentative and uncooperative behavior Purposely antagonistic, vindictive and revengeful behavior, aggressive behavior, temper tantrums during adolescence, etc. Serious thoughts of self-harm or harming others Self-injurious behaviors (cutting, etc.) Eating disorders (i.e., anorexia, bulimia, etc.) Setting fires Harming or killing animals Hospitalization in a mental health facility Binge drinking alcohol Smoking cigarettes or vaping Drug use (including marijuana) or participation in a rehabilitation program Lack of remorse or lack of empathy for other people's feelings Running away from home

How would you describe your daughter's comfort with opening up to adults in the helping professions? (teachers, doctors, therapists, etc.)*

Is your child open to the idea of having a professional life coach? (If you enroll in the program, Dr. Carla will give you tips about how to present the coaching program to her if you haven't already discussed it)*

Yes, we have discussed coaching and she is open to it No, she is not open to life coaching I'm not sure because we have not discussed life coaching

What type of virtual coaching programs are you interested in? (select all that apply):*

Private coaching Group coaching Mother/child coaching Coaching for mothers (if your child is not willing to work with a life coach) Father/child coaching

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If working 1-on-1 with Dr. Carla to help your daughter was a top priority for you, how much would you be able to invest in coaching with Dr. Carla?*

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If you have a partner or spouse who would need to contribute financially or approve of your decision to invest in coaching for your child, are they open to the idea of making a significant investment in working with Dr. Carla 1-on-1 to support your family?*

I am in a position to invest in coaching for my child on my own without obtaining approval or financial support from anyone I have discussed life coaching with my spouse/partner/child's parent and he/she/they are supportive of the idea and open to investing in coaching I have discussed life coaching with my spouse/partner/child's parent and he/she/they are NOT open to investing in coaching I have not discussed life coaching with my spouse/partner/child's parent and do not know if he/she/they are open to investing in coaching

On a scale from 1 to 10, how interested and ready are you to commit to hiring Dr. Carla as your child's personal coach if a spot becomes available?*

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